Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Broken...


 
Have you ever pondered that nobody really knows how much anybody else is hurting? We could be standing next to somebody who is completely broken and we wouldn't even notice it. But what if you are the person who is broken?

Its strange having moments in life when you realize that how your life could be, and then having to return to how it really is.

A moment usually arrives when your life feels like its caving in on you. That is the reason why people really do feel like they don’t want to exist. They just want to curl up in a ball and go to that place between life and death. Saying "I don’t want to exist" doesn’t mean that you want to die.  It means "I wish, for the time being, I could go somewhere and not feel all this that is happening to me."  I don’t think there is anything wrong if a person thinks that way.

In case some people don’t know how it feels to feel this way, then you have no place to judge anyone who does.

17 comments:

  1. It is really difficult to judge that if anyone is heartbroken or not. But believe me we are surrounded by people going through difficult time.

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  2. We do want to disappear sometime. We feel its only way out and believe me sometimes it is the only way out.

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  3. Its not written on anyone's face that he or she is broken and its like the world is running and the broken one is crawling!

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  4. @ Talha: U are right.We actually dont notice it but there are several heart-broken ppl out there

    @Asma: A harsh reality but very true indeed

    @Nuru: Yup nobody stops for anybody now

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  5. I love your blog! You will be in our prayers and thoughts! Nice and informative post on this topic thanks for sharing with us.Thank you

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  6. @ Shop Towel: thank you soo much for your comments : )

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  7. Hmmm in life several turning points come when we feel scape from life or break, yes of course it does not mean we want death but rest... :/

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  8. @ Asma Khan: Hmm u are right : )

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  9. "Its strange having moments in life when you realize that how your life could be, and then having to return to how it really is." Its so bloody true, we do live in a perpetual state of dream and reality and sometimes we wish we couldnt tell the difference.

    (Btw, first time on your blog, following it)

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  10. @ A Great liar: thank you for your humble comments and an extra thx for following my blog : )

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  11. I would like to thank you for sharing your thoughts and time into the stuff you post!! Thumbs up


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  12. the par u shared resemble to a human feeling
    n i wish that u never face this phase ever in life :)

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  13. @ Anonymous: thank you so much : )

    @ Anum Munaf: thats quiet strange actually that i went through this phase after i published the post but i am outta of it now. thx for sharing your thoughts : )

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  14. People as I think there are only two emotions in human life that matters. Regret and joy. i don't have space in my life for an emotion called "Heartbroken". I have trained myself or rather time and life and people of this world have trained in such a way that i coup with every sad feeling very well. the only things i could not control about myself are my regrets which are great in number and my joys like travelling which drive me mad and i wander around in search for them. Up till now no moment has come in my life which could made me sad for more than an hour or two. May be i am a bit too cold blooded. But this is the way i am and i am happy

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  15. @ Moeen Ghafoor: I agree with your thoughts but I dont think that its right to term yourself as "cold-blooded" cuz u are actually a controlled person i guess whose emotions arent overpowering. Sadly i am not. I do feel heart-broken at times but yea i really hope that someday,like you i say that i dont have any space for the emotion heart-broken. thx fr yr comment : )

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  16. @ kiran: if you want to go in a state where there is no space for emotion called heart-broken then you will have to develop a power in yourself which should be the strongest power and neither emotions nor people should be able to overcome that power. and once that happens no event will be greater to make you heart broken. To develop that power in yourself just be yourself think that everything is in my range and no one can compete me, never compromise on that habit which you want in yourself and stand by the truth only, not with yourself, your parents or this world. The truth according to you should remain the truth no matters who is speaking or what is saying. "TRUTH SHOULD REMAIN TRUE"

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  17. @ Moeen Ghafoor: Truth indeed has always played an integral part in my life and i always stand by what i believe : ) thx a lot for taking out the time and sharing yr advice. I will surely try to incorporate your advice in my life : )thx

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