Friday, March 11, 2011

Learning along the way

In the past 2 months, I have really learned a lot.. ….

I have learned that everything happens for a reason.
I have learned to not sweat about the small stuff, to just chill because no problem is big enough that I can't solve.
I have learned that you should hold on to what you love, fight for it but there's only a certain amount of fighting that you can do, and at some point when you realize that it's not working, then it's time to let go because it wasn't meant to be.
I have learned not to try and follow the directions on the map because sometimes you just have to make up the directions as you go along, or better yet, just jump up, fly and see where the wind takes you to.
I have learned to smile no matter what. Whether you're sad or happy on the inside, just smile. Sometimes you gotta fake it but it’s worth it.
I have learned that being labeled as a bad person hurts really bad but moving forward and correcting that perception actually makes you feel good.
I have learned that even if you feel lonely and like you have no one at all, there is always someone there, always. You just have to pull your head up, open your eyes and look around to see them.
I have learned that friends are amazing and when you're having a tough time, the quietest of people, people you've never even spoken to will sometime come forward and give you a shoulder to lean on.
I have learned that you have to take each day as it comes, no planning for the future and no dwelling on the past.
I have learned that there is nothing wrong in being straight-forward but being too open is actually being too silly.
I have learned that people will change. Really important people will walk straight out of your life, and you kinda just have to let them go.
I have learned that life already has things planned out for us and no matter how hard we try and stop something from happening, or no matter how hard we try to make it happen, if it was really meant to be then life will make it be.
I have learned that your past is always going to be there. You can try as hard as you can to make it all fade away but it won’t because the past is set in stone. It won’t leave you and you can’t leave it. It's just something you gotta try deal with.
I have learned that love never fades away, it never dies and it can never ever be replaced by hate. Love is here, just like your past, set in stone. So once the love is here, it always will be, no matter what.
And the most important thing that I have learned is that no matter what people say about you, God will always be your witness.


  1. Thanks for sharing your valuable experiences... :)
    Stay Blessed

  2. Yes, nothing wrong with being straight forward, as long as you say it the right way. Because it is not what u say but how u say it that matters. Hence you can say just abt anything to anyone and get away with it.

  3. very well written
    I have learned that
    your past is always going to be there.

  4. "no planning for the future and no dwelling on the past"...lovely post i really appreciate you that you've learnt so much :)

  5. @ Asma Khan: Thank you for yr kind words : )

    @ A Great Liar: Yea thts my main issue that i dont know how to say things the right way : )

    @ Miss Hanif: : ) Yea i have gained quiet a lot of experience but cant term myself as a full-fledged experienced grl cz i still hv a long way to go.

    @ sm: Thanks for your comments : )

    @ Tehreem: Thank you tehreem : )

  6. agreeeedd on every point :)

  7. @ Anum munaf: thx for agreeing : )

  8. Seems so much discussion here thats gr8 and very well written keep posting..:)

  9. @Shoaib Ishart: thx for your comments : )